Hi Sammy, You are completely right there. Generally we have good rapport with friends we have known for ages. If you are a bit shy and nervy with strangers it can be hard to get the conversation going. So, after a good introduction ask them an open question. Open question are ones that require a detailed answer. If it is a social situation, you might ask (using their name, with genuine honest interest) about their family, or their interests, or even compliment them on what they are wearing (if the situation warrants it) and then ask what they think of modern fashion. Then be quiet, nod agreeingly, smile and be honestly interested at their reply. You are after all asking a question of someone who has expert knowledge on the subject (their own family, interests or fashion likes) and people do love to talk about themselves. All the best, Kevin

Hello Shiri and thank you for your comment. I would agree good rapport is really important in therapy. As a client you are looking for someone who understands you and your personal world. Also you must trust your therapist enough to be able to open up about your issues. All of this is part of the ethical and friendly service we provide here. All the best, Kevin